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Towards a life outside the rules: A note of encouragement for a tough day
Of course you're yearning for something else - you have lived experience and awareness of your power to create and build positive things that can address what's messed up in the world. But what if the intensity of that yearning for something else is not about the pain of the stuckness of this moment, but actually reflects your deep inner certainty in your power, your potential energy... (which, when it becomes kinetic energy, watch out world)! Your brilliant body already know
Shirley
5 days ago3 min read


Musings on a gathering space
It’s kind of beautiful to me to consider how this hall and the potential energy within has contributed to human connection without doing anything other than simply existing.
Shirley
Apr 162 min read


On "What Am I Doing Wrong Here?"
For when we find ourselves asking this question in our daily lives [Originally published on Substack on September 25, 2024. Moving it here as part of building a more complete, unified archive of my work.] A picture from a particularly beautiful place near my home that reminds me that we exist in just a tiny moment of history. A few months ago, I had a minor personal epiphany. One that has opened my eyes and super-shifted my perspective on how I experience my life. It hit me o
Shirley
Mar 246 min read


Life in the incidental moments
It is a striking reminder to me of how much we can influence the world without even knowing it. This man I’m sure doesn’t have any awareness that his brief comment brightened my day, and yet I’m going to carry positive energy forward because of him. And I think we all do that for each other. Maybe not for every single person we encounter in the day, but our influence in the micro-moments MATTERS. We are shaping the world via the micro-moments of just being ourselves.
Shirley
Mar 43 min read


Emotions and the chain-link fence
[Originally published on Substack on May 13, 2024. Moving it here as part of building a more complete, unified archive of my work.] My emotions are fighting against containment today. The are swelling out, yelling “look at me, look at me!” My body doesn’t know what to do with them. And so I look to my to-do list for the day, saying “okay, but the emotions are for later. Right now you need to focus on x (to-do list item).” But my emotions scream, “no! I am right here! Notice m
Shirley
Feb 253 min read


The Hunger For More: On honoring what we want AND our exhaustion
[Originally published on Substack on May 10, 2024. Moving it here as part of building a more complete, unified archive of my work.] I am hungry. Oh so very hungry. That gnawing, unsettled feeling of needing more. My body knows it. But gosh, my brain is trying to tell me, “no, you’re fine. You’re just making excuses. Ignore that gnawing, that knowing, and sit here and do that thing on your to-do list today. Just push through.” I’ve been through the cycles of gaining and losing
Shirley
Feb 205 min read


Standing Still and Zooming Out
Originally published September 15, 2022 Even if your goals seem so far away, you are exactly where you need to be today. Even if it feels...
Shirley
Apr 19, 20241 min read


Reflections on "Innovation"
Originally published October 28, 2022 Before I share a few of my recent thoughts about elements we need for innovation to happen, I'd...
Shirley
Apr 19, 20242 min read


An End-of-Year (or Anytime!) Exercise to Orient Around Key Ideals
Originally published December 22, 2022 You know how lots of people get all excited about the holidays, put up their Christmas tree right after Thanksgiving, get all of their shopping done early, play Christmas music non-stop through the month of December? Yeah. I am so not one of them. I would go so far as to call myself a holiday grinch. The weight of the expectations from this season is just too much for me. While I try to embrace the fun of it with my daughters, I’m not su
Shirley
Apr 19, 20244 min read


Undeniable Superpowers Bolstered by a Science PhD (That Have Nothing to do with Bench Skills or Publication Record)
Originally published April 5, 2022 When we change careers, sometimes it's hard to remember that we have skills that qualify us to work in...
Shirley
Apr 19, 20242 min read


Manifesto for the Modern-Day Scientist
Originally published Jan 28, 2022 We are the modern-day scientists. We achieve success in our careers, defined not by others'...
Shirley
Apr 19, 20241 min read


Welcome!
Welcome to The Space In Between Blog, where we examine the culture, conditions, and questions that shape our careers and lives. Where we...
Shirley
Apr 19, 20241 min read
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